Surprisingly little of value on the subject online. Many Christian sites come up, but even these provide pathetically bad advice. I say even, because one would think that they of all people would refute the pop culture ideals. But instead they have their own version, a Christian pop culture version of true love that is perhaps just as far from the truth.
Is it such a shock that so many people make poor decisions regarding love? We depend on others to tell us what it is, because it is likely you only experience it once in your life, and yet the information is so poor.
So I will attempt to put my thoughts on the subject into words here... and probably some other subjects too.
